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So why would you go No Contact with the Narcissist

 

So why would you go no contact with the Narcissist you have enabled and have allowed them to exploit you:

Everything about them is fake, and nothing is real

Everything about them is a façade. They have no integrity

It is all performance and no substance

It is all manipulation and exploitation and no sincerity

Everything is toxicity with no apologies

I need to ask the question why does someone who is supposed to love me: lie, cheat, steal, use, abuse,  neglect, ignore, manipulate, triangulate, exploit, disrespect, disregard, discard, abandon, make little to no effort, responds to your pain with indifference, enjoys watching you struggle, enjoy your misery and resent your happiness.

Having No Contact - your benefits: free time, more energy, self-respect, healthy boundaries, peace of mind, health and well-being, serenity, more time with decent, adult, well-balanced, mature people who love and cherish you.

 

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