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What makes a manager a Bad Boss - AKA - A Narc. Boss

 - Worked  36 years for these types of disordered individuals  What makes a manager a Bad Boss 1. 37% reported: The Manager provides little direction. 2. 21% said The Manager micromanages or "nit-picks." 3. 15% said, The manager belittles and puts down staff. 4. 12% said, Little or no recognition for success or hard work. 5. 8% said, The manager is indecisive and seemingly changes direction at whim. Bad bosses, in order of their frequency in the survey, do the following. Love brown nosers, tattletales, and relatives who report to them. They choose favourite employees and cover-up and make excuses for the poor work of their incompetent favourites. They ignore selected people and discriminate against many employees. Fail to communicate, and may not even have expectations, timelines or goals. Bad bosses change their minds frequently leaving employees off-balance. Bad bosses change expectations and deadlines frequently. Use disciplinary measures inappropriately

The holy narcissist

  The holy narcissist     The holy narcissist is one of the especially effective members of the narcissistic brethren. The attraction of religion but moreover being a member of the clergy carries with it considerable advantages for those of our kind who manage to install themselves within organized religion. The holy narcissist is nigh on impeachable. What better authority can there be for always being right, always having the high ground and always being revered than as an instrument of God? The holy narcissist has the supreme power in his corner and a book full of phrases and sentences that he can turn to in support of his wisdom. He is here to do good work and by virtue of his position, he is assumed to be truthful, kind, compassionate and empathic. The holy narcissist has one of the most effective facades one might hope to see amongst our kind. His is not a fa├žade which has to be worked at through the careful application of community works, diligent industry at work and all