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The Narcissist’s Antisocial Solution

The Narcissist’s  Antisocial Solution

The narcissist renounces reality.  To his mind, those who fail to recognize his unbound talents, innate superiority, overarching brilliance, benevolent nature, entitlement, cosmically important mission, perfection, etc.  - do not deserve consideration.  The narcissist's has a natural affinity with the criminal - his lack of empathy and compassion, his deficient social skills,  his disregard for social laws and morals - now erupt and blossom. On the spectrum of Personality D/O, the Narcissist sits next to the Antisocial and Borderline Px/D/O

He eventually always becomes a fully fledged antisocial (sociopath or psychopath) as he continues to convince himself of his grandiosity, he specialness.  He develops into his own delusional False Self, now classic hubris which knows no bounds of entitlements.   He ignores the wishes and needs of others, he breaks the law, he violates all rights - natural and legal, he holds people in contempt and disdain, he derides society and its codes, and he punishes the ignorant - that, to his mind, drove him to this state. They are always on the hunt for the next convenient scapegoat to target their unconscious now displaced self rage from their trauma past. 

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