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Psalm 35 - A Prayer of Vengeance and Redemption for my Past Employer - Which I know has already been answered by the Lord - Amen!!!!!!

  Psalm 35 Of David. 1  Contend,  Lord , with those who contend with me;      fight against those who fight against me. 2  Take up shield and armor;      arise and come to my aid. 3  Brandish spear and javelin [ a ]      against those who pursue me. Say to me,      “I am your salvation.” 4  May those who seek my life      be disgraced and put to shame; may those who plot my ruin      be turned back in dismay. 5  May they be like chaff before the wind,      with the angel of the  Lord  driving them away; 6  may their path be dark and slippery,      with the angel of the  Lord  pursuing them. 7  Since they hid their net for me without cause      and without cause dug a pit for me, 8  may ruin overtake them by surprise—      may the net they hid entangle them,      may they fall into the pit, to their ruin. 9  Then my soul will rejoice in the  Lord      and delight in his salvation. 10  My whole being will exclaim,      “Who is like you,  Lord ? You rescue the poor from those too strong f
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Lasting effects as a Child of a Narcissistic Parent

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What’s the Smear Campaign All About?

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Notes on Melanie Klein

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Cutting Ties With a Toxic Parent

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